8-1-2001
Phyllis
McGinley
(1905
- 1978)
|
|
She upheld in her poetry the values she cherished, writing with delight of the suburban landscape. She wrote in masterfully controlled conventional form, and her great technical expertise gave her work the appearance of effortlessness. In 1961 her Times Three: Selected Verse from Three Decades (1960) was awarded the Pulitzer Prize for poetry. McGinley also wrote a number of books for children, including The Horse That Lived Upstairs (1944), All Around the Town (1948), Blunderbus (1951), The Make-Believe Twins (1953), Boys are Awful (1962), and How Mrs. Santa Claus Saved Christmas (1963). Her essays, first published in such magazines as Ladies' Home Journal and Reader's Digest are collected in Province of the Heart (1959); Sixpence in Her Shoe (1964), a popular series of autobiographical essays about being a wife in the suburbs; Wonderful Time (1966); and Saint Watching (1969). Her later collections of poems include Sugar and Spice (1960) and A Wreath of Christmas Legends (1967). McGinley died in New York City on February 22, 1978. |
QUOTES
Gossip
isn't scandal and it's not merely malicious. It's chatter about the human race
by lovers of the same. Gossip is the tool of the poet, the shop-talk of the
scientist, and the consolation of the housewife, wit, tycoon and intellectual.
It begins in the nursery and ends when speech is past.
A
lady is smarter than a gentleman, maybe, She can sew a fine seam, she can have a
baby, She can use her intuition instead of her brain, But she can't fold a paper
in a crowded train.
The
knowingness of little girls / Is hidden underneath their curls.
Nothing
fails like success; nothing is so defeated as yesterday's triumphant Cause.
The
trouble with gardening is that it does not remain an avocation. It becomes an
obsession.
Praise
is warming and desirable. But it is an earned thing. It has to be deserved, like
a hug from a child.
Our
bodies are shaped to bear children, and our lives are a working out of the
processes of creation. All our ambitions and intelligence are beside that great
elemental point..
Of
course we women gossip on occasion. But our appetite for it is not as avid as a
mans. It is in the boys gyms, the college fraternity houses, the club
locker rooms, the paneled offices of business that gossip reaches its luxuriant
flower.
I
do not know who first invented the myth of sexual equality. But it is a myth
willfully fostered and nourished by certain semi-scientists and other fiction
writers. And it has done more, I suspect, to unsettle marital happiness than any
other false doctrine of this myth-ridden age.
Who
could deny that privacy is a jewel? It has always been the mark of privilege,
the distinguishing feature of a truly urbane culture. Out of the cave, the
tribal teepee, the pueblo, the community fortress, man emerged to build himself
a house of his own with a shelter in it for himself and his diversions. Every
age has seen it so. The poor might have to huddle together in cities for need's
sake, and the frontiersman cling to his neighbors for the sake of protection.
But in each civilization, as it advanced, those who could afford it chose the
luxury of a withdrawing-place.
Sticks
and stones are hard on bones aimed with angry art. Words can sting like anything
but silence breaks the heart.
Sin
has always been an ugly word, but it has been made so in a new sense over the
last half-century. It has been made not only ugly but passé. People are no
longer sinful, they are only immature or underprivileged or frightened or, more
particularly, sick.
|
Ballad
of Lost Objects
Where
are the ribbons I tie my hair with?
Where
is my lipstick? Where are my hose -
The
sheer ones hoarded these weeks to wear with
Frocks
the closets do not disclose?
Perfumes,
petticoats, sports chapeaux,
The
blouse Parisian, the earrings Spanish -
Everything
suddenly up and goes.
And
where in the world did the children vanish?
This
is the house I used to share with
Girls
in pinafores, shier than does.
I
can recall how they climbed my stairs with
Gales
of giggles on their tiptoes.
Last
seen wearing both braids and bows
(And
looking rather Raggedy-Annish),
When
they departed nobody knows -
Where
in the world did the children vanish?
Two
tall strangers, now I must bear with,
Decked
in my personal furbelows,
Raiding
the larder, rending the air with
Gossip
and terrible radios.
Neither
my friends nor quite my foes,
Alien,
beautiful, stern and clannish,
Here
they dwell, while the wonder grows:
Where
in the world did the children vanish?
Prince,
I warn you, under the rose,
Time
is the thief you cannot banish.
These
are my daughters, I suppose.
But
where in the world did the children vanish?
|
|
Ode to the end of Summer
Summer,
adieu
Adieu gregarious season.
Goodbye,
'revoir, farewell.
Now
day comes late; now chillier blows the breeze on
Forsaken
beach and boarded-up hotel.
Now
wild geese fly together in thin lines
And
Tourist Homes take down their lettered signs.
It
fades--this green this lavish interval
This
time of flowers and fruits,
Of
melon ripe along the orchard wall,
Of
sun and sails and wrinkled linen suits;
Time
when the world seems rather plus than minus
And
pollen tickles the allergic sinus.
Now
fugitives to farm and shore and highland
Cancel
their brief escape.
The
Ferris wheel is quiet at Coney Island
And
quaintness trades no longer on the Cape;
While
meek-eyed parents hasten down the ramps
To
greet their offspring, terrible from camps.
Turn
up the steam. The year is growing older.
The
maple boughs are red.
Summer,
farewell. Farewell the sunburnt shoulder
Farewell
the peasant kerchief on the head.
Farewell
the thunderstorm, complete with lightning,
And
the white shoe that ever needeth whitening.
Farewell,
vacation friendships, sweet but tenuous
Ditto
to slacks and shorts,
Farewell,
O strange compulsion to be strenuous
Which
sends us forth to death on tennis courts.
Farewel,
Mosquito, horror of our nights;
Clambakes,
iced tea, and transatlantic flights.
The
zinnia withers, mortal as the tulip.
Now
from the dripping glass
I'll
sip no more the amateur mint julep
Nor
dine al fresco on the alien grass;
Nor
scale the height nor breast the truculent billow
Nor
lay my head on any weekend pillow.
Unstintingly
I yield myself to Autumn
And
Equinoctial sloth.
I
hide my swim suit in the bureau's bottom
Nor
fear the fury of the after-moth
Forswearing
porch and pool and beetled garden,
My
heart shall rest, my arteries shall harden.
Welcome,
kind Fall, and every month with "r" in
Whereto
my mind is bent.
Come,
sedentary season that I star in,
O
fire-lit Winter of my deep content!
Amid
the snow, the sleet, the blizzard's raw gust
I
shall be cozier than I was in August.
Safe
from the picnic sleeps the unlittered dell.
The
last Good Humor sounds its final bell
And
all is silence.
Summer, farewell, farewell.
|
|